I' wrote about 33 DS getting kicked out of sober house, not following rules, and despite jail, prison, rehab has not matured. Difficult personality - non-compliant and entitled. Said he would never go to a shelter, furious at me for suggesting it. I've spent too much money over the years helping him at the slightest glimmer or hope with no positive results. He was couch surfing and begging money. I told him not to contact me for 2 weeks - couldn't take it. He kept calling. I didn't answer. He showed up at house tonight when my husband was home and said he is staying at the shelter in town. He asked if I could drop some of his things by tomorrow (no car) and asked if I could bring him to the grocery store to get a few things. I said yes. Here's the problem. Both my therapist and husband say I should have no contact with him because the requests never stop. Part of me thinks they are right. I wonder if he might not have caved and gone to the shelter if I didn't cut contact for those two weeks. My husband doesn't like that I am giving him a ride to the grocery store - probably a 2 mile walk. I see one move in the right direction (going to the shelter), and I move towards the slippery slope. This has been going on for 15 years. Does it have to be all or none? Any thoughts, wisdom, past experience would be greatly appreciated.