This is great Nomad.The ball is in her court. I've very significantly detached. And am moving forward. I hope for the best, but understand this is VERY (understatement here) likely going to be a very bumpy rough road...for her. Life moves on and life is good.
It's their lives. That is what we had to learn. We don't have to go along for the ride. It doesn't mean we don't love them, care, or suffer with them and for them. But we don't have to go along for the ride. We are in charge of our own car and we can choose to let them ride on our car, or let them in for a trip or two but we don't have to go on their journey with them. Why did it take me so long to get this?