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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 100655" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Hon,</p><p></p><p>If you are asking for opinions, as to whether or not he was with another girl, I don't think any of us can answer that.</p><p></p><p>Honest? About a 50-50 chance. </p><p></p><p>Not the reason he left the house though. He left to go get smashed. </p><p></p><p>He has a drinking problem, and it is not going to get better no matter how much you cry and beg. He has to want to get help.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry that you are sad. I am sorry that you are hurting.</p><p></p><p>There is another gal on the board whose hubby was drinking increasingly. He started skipping work. I told her that maybe she should leave the house. Like you, she did not think she was capable of handling things without him. Eventually he came home drunk and was abusive physically to her and their older son. Now there is a court case over this hanging in the air.</p><p></p><p>Think really hard about what your husband might be capable of if he came home drunk. If that scares you enough, you might want to come up with an emergency plan for yourself and the kids. Find a DV shelter and keep the number handy. Have a bag packed so if necessary, you and the kids can run. Involve a neighbor. And do NOT be afraid to call the police if things get out of hand.</p><p></p><p>These words sound scary if you have never gone through this before. It could save your life, so don't brush them off.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there sweetie. Keep us informed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 100655, member: 3647"] Hon, If you are asking for opinions, as to whether or not he was with another girl, I don't think any of us can answer that. Honest? About a 50-50 chance. Not the reason he left the house though. He left to go get smashed. He has a drinking problem, and it is not going to get better no matter how much you cry and beg. He has to want to get help. I am so sorry that you are sad. I am sorry that you are hurting. There is another gal on the board whose hubby was drinking increasingly. He started skipping work. I told her that maybe she should leave the house. Like you, she did not think she was capable of handling things without him. Eventually he came home drunk and was abusive physically to her and their older son. Now there is a court case over this hanging in the air. Think really hard about what your husband might be capable of if he came home drunk. If that scares you enough, you might want to come up with an emergency plan for yourself and the kids. Find a DV shelter and keep the number handy. Have a bag packed so if necessary, you and the kids can run. Involve a neighbor. And do NOT be afraid to call the police if things get out of hand. These words sound scary if you have never gone through this before. It could save your life, so don't brush them off. Hang in there sweetie. Keep us informed. [/QUOTE]
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