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<blockquote data-quote="HereWeGoAgain" data-source="post: 415849" data-attributes="member: 3485"><p>wife and I never allowed sleepovers. difficult child always respected us in this - never did drugs or had sex in our home, even before easy child 1 was born - it all happened elsewhere. Even last year, at 30, she didn't have her boyfriends spend the night at our house, except on a very few occasions (e.g., boyfriend's car wouldn't start) - on those occasions, boyfriend got a cot in the laundry room or the couch.</p><p> </p><p>We would let easy child son and daughter in law sleep together in our house, since they are married - but they don't! It's moot now since they have their own house across town to go to, but back when we were in IL and they came to visit they got a motel or easy child son slept on the couch. One time when they were still boyfriend/girlfriend and she stayed over, wife caught him trying to sneak in to the guest bedroom - he was absolutely mortified - still turns bright red if it's brought up.</p><p> </p><p>As for 17 year old boy and 25 year old woman - that is quite an age gap in my opinion. If it was say 27 and 35 that would be different, but a 17 yo boy is still a kid in many ways. I don't think it's a problem that she is <strong>a</strong> teacher, as long as she is not <strong>his</strong> teacher or in his school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HereWeGoAgain, post: 415849, member: 3485"] wife and I never allowed sleepovers. difficult child always respected us in this - never did drugs or had sex in our home, even before easy child 1 was born - it all happened elsewhere. Even last year, at 30, she didn't have her boyfriends spend the night at our house, except on a very few occasions (e.g., boyfriend's car wouldn't start) - on those occasions, boyfriend got a cot in the laundry room or the couch. We would let easy child son and daughter in law sleep together in our house, since they are married - but they don't! It's moot now since they have their own house across town to go to, but back when we were in IL and they came to visit they got a motel or easy child son slept on the couch. One time when they were still boyfriend/girlfriend and she stayed over, wife caught him trying to sneak in to the guest bedroom - he was absolutely mortified - still turns bright red if it's brought up. As for 17 year old boy and 25 year old woman - that is quite an age gap in my opinion. If it was say 27 and 35 that would be different, but a 17 yo boy is still a kid in many ways. I don't think it's a problem that she is [B]a[/B] teacher, as long as she is not [B]his[/B] teacher or in his school. [/QUOTE]
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