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<blockquote data-quote="meggy1" data-source="post: 391171"><p>Thanks everyone for the warm welcome<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p><p>Thanks also for the information on the book, I will definately have to read that one. I agree that labeling kids is more damaging than helpfull which is why we have just changed therapists. Her new one is currently focusing on ways difficult child can relax/calm herself down when she gets so angry. Her plan is to then work with the family so we can all learn how to handle difficult child's outburst should they happen. One of her previous therapists did give me the great advice to stop "fighting" with her. That when she has one of her episodes to tell her that her behaviour is not acceptable that we can talk when she has calmed herself down and finished her punishment (usually ten minutes in a chair not being able to talk which is what she LOVES to do). When she gets really bad and won't listen to reason and continues to want to fight I normally lock myself in my bedroom until she has calmed herself down. Hoping our new therapist can help the entire family find a way to live "normally". <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meggy1, post: 391171"] Thanks everyone for the warm welcome:happy: Thanks also for the information on the book, I will definately have to read that one. I agree that labeling kids is more damaging than helpfull which is why we have just changed therapists. Her new one is currently focusing on ways difficult child can relax/calm herself down when she gets so angry. Her plan is to then work with the family so we can all learn how to handle difficult child's outburst should they happen. One of her previous therapists did give me the great advice to stop "fighting" with her. That when she has one of her episodes to tell her that her behaviour is not acceptable that we can talk when she has calmed herself down and finished her punishment (usually ten minutes in a chair not being able to talk which is what she LOVES to do). When she gets really bad and won't listen to reason and continues to want to fight I normally lock myself in my bedroom until she has calmed herself down. Hoping our new therapist can help the entire family find a way to live "normally". :happy: [/QUOTE]
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