hi to all so i've noticed difficult child has a high level of paranoia. i took the time tonight to truly listen to her speak of her lunchrm experience, as i do most nights when shes' down and out and upset about it. she says i sit there alone, and i'm hungry but i'm nervous to eat because everyone's looking at me, and talking about me i hear them whispering. they think i'm weird. last year i didn't eat at all, so now this year i really am hungry. so i take a bite and i feel like i am shoving the food down my throat or into my face that's why their all looking. so i can't move it's like i'm frozen in fear, i manage to raise my hand and the monitor comes over and i have someone safe to talk to who isn't talking about me. she lets me go to hte nurse where i feel safe. ok so that is totally messed up, isn't it what she goes thru every day in lunch room? social worker says cognitive therapy is making her stay in lunchroom through it, i'm like ummm no if she needs to get out let her get out. any thoughts?