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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 136256" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>{{{{{Hugs}}}}}WNC,</p><p></p><p>As others have already said, your husband's behaviour is manipulative, and you shouldn't put up with any of it.</p><p></p><p>I have been there done that. Years ago when I was still with my ex-H, I had to have surgery to remove 2 very large (thankfully non-cancerous) tumors from my abdomen. While I was in hospital recovering, ex-H pitched a hissy fit so bad that they had to ask him to leave the hospital. A few years later when my favourite uncle had just died and we flew down to NY for his funeral, same thing. He pitched a fit and behaved terribly.</p><p></p><p>The pattern was that, every time something very serious was going on in my life and people were paying attention to me, he had to pitch a fit to try and get my undivided attention.</p><p></p><p>My ex is an immature manipulative cruel and abusive bully.</p><p></p><p>You don't have to deal with this. I agree that therapy for yourself is a good idea, to help you decide what is best for you and then take the steps you need to reach your goal.</p><p></p><p>Take care of yourself.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 136256, member: 3907"] {{{{{Hugs}}}}}WNC, As others have already said, your husband's behaviour is manipulative, and you shouldn't put up with any of it. I have been there done that. Years ago when I was still with my ex-H, I had to have surgery to remove 2 very large (thankfully non-cancerous) tumors from my abdomen. While I was in hospital recovering, ex-H pitched a hissy fit so bad that they had to ask him to leave the hospital. A few years later when my favourite uncle had just died and we flew down to NY for his funeral, same thing. He pitched a fit and behaved terribly. The pattern was that, every time something very serious was going on in my life and people were paying attention to me, he had to pitch a fit to try and get my undivided attention. My ex is an immature manipulative cruel and abusive bully. You don't have to deal with this. I agree that therapy for yourself is a good idea, to help you decide what is best for you and then take the steps you need to reach your goal. Take care of yourself. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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