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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 136609" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Get to counseling - </p><p>Get some professional insight on what you are worth - because currently you don't think you are worth much. </p><p>Get your plan formulated while you still remain in the house since he is not physically abusive, </p><p>Get your ducks in a row, get your own bank account started, get some credit cards in your name only -savings account, </p><p>Get your important papers copied like birth certificates, insurance cards, medicaid, social security cards - and put in a secure place.</p><p>Get your attorney lined up through a womens domestic violence shelter</p><p></p><p>AND GET THE H OUT OF THERE - </p><p></p><p>That 'veiled threat?" - very scary - </p><p></p><p>Also remember to delete any emails and traces on line of coming here - if this is a safe haven for you- it should be. </p><p></p><p>I want to tell you something - </p><p></p><p>My x beat and tortured me for years. He put me in ICU 3 times, he tried to kill me. He made me work 3 jobs, and would come to where I worked and get my paychecks, He was in charge of all the finances, and tax refunds he cashed forging my name. I dare not say a thing. When he started to abuse our son - I would step in between him and then 2 1/2 year old son. I got it worse. Eventually he'd get around me and was physically abusing my son. He tricked me into sending my son away and I couldn't do a think - kidnapping wasn't kidnapping because he was legally his parent. My son was sold for crack cocaine at 5 years old, he was molested there and by my x - and my x never did a day in jail - we suspect he traded drug information for a dismissal. I hadn't seen or heard from him in years - and was in hiding until someone we lived with gave information on where we were. My xmil found us, swore she wouldn't give the phone # to her son -pulled out of my driveway - and before she could have EVEN gotten on the highway - the phone rang in my house and it was him!!!! And he left a message that said (and I quote) </p><p></p><p>"I think you should grow up a little Star - you took my son, you wrecked my life, and you should pay for that, but I'm willing to let by gones be by gones . It's all water under the bridge to me now. </p><p></p><p>YOURS is a less severe form of that. </p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 136609, member: 4964"] Get to counseling - Get some professional insight on what you are worth - because currently you don't think you are worth much. Get your plan formulated while you still remain in the house since he is not physically abusive, Get your ducks in a row, get your own bank account started, get some credit cards in your name only -savings account, Get your important papers copied like birth certificates, insurance cards, medicaid, social security cards - and put in a secure place. Get your attorney lined up through a womens domestic violence shelter AND GET THE H OUT OF THERE - That 'veiled threat?" - very scary - Also remember to delete any emails and traces on line of coming here - if this is a safe haven for you- it should be. I want to tell you something - My x beat and tortured me for years. He put me in ICU 3 times, he tried to kill me. He made me work 3 jobs, and would come to where I worked and get my paychecks, He was in charge of all the finances, and tax refunds he cashed forging my name. I dare not say a thing. When he started to abuse our son - I would step in between him and then 2 1/2 year old son. I got it worse. Eventually he'd get around me and was physically abusing my son. He tricked me into sending my son away and I couldn't do a think - kidnapping wasn't kidnapping because he was legally his parent. My son was sold for crack cocaine at 5 years old, he was molested there and by my x - and my x never did a day in jail - we suspect he traded drug information for a dismissal. I hadn't seen or heard from him in years - and was in hiding until someone we lived with gave information on where we were. My xmil found us, swore she wouldn't give the phone # to her son -pulled out of my driveway - and before she could have EVEN gotten on the highway - the phone rang in my house and it was him!!!! And he left a message that said (and I quote) "I think you should grow up a little Star - you took my son, you wrecked my life, and you should pay for that, but I'm willing to let by gones be by gones . It's all water under the bridge to me now. YOURS is a less severe form of that. in my humble opinion [/QUOTE]
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