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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 324746" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>As I posted before I am genuinely sorry that the HI opportunity didn't come through. on the other hand you did say a few times that you really wondered if you wouldn't be better moving to a nearby community and starting over again. It sounds like now is the time to do it. Obviously the State is not going to say it is ok for you not to have a plan for providing a home that is safe for your son.</p><p> </p><p>Those of us with difficult children thoroughly understand your disappointment, your confusion and your resentment that the system caused you unnecessary grief. BUT...if you have to cut expenses to the bone, take a minimum wage job or two, apply for food stamps and supplemental income from the government..just do it. To transition from a home, two dogs and a sense of security into the unknown has to be anxiety filled for you. I don't see that you have any choice and the sooner you fall back and regroup the sooner you will be headed for a reunited family. </p><p> </p><p>Try temp jobs. Try holiday openings. Sign up to do the census. Accept multiple jobs sense you are living alone and can do it. Sell your unneeded things. Try to find foster homes for the fuzzbutts. Focus on the one and only really important goal...find a safe (even if much smaller) place to call home and make it your own. I've been there done that and it is bad news but you are an adult who is healthy and bright. Look at it as an opportunity and go for it. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 324746, member: 35"] As I posted before I am genuinely sorry that the HI opportunity didn't come through. on the other hand you did say a few times that you really wondered if you wouldn't be better moving to a nearby community and starting over again. It sounds like now is the time to do it. Obviously the State is not going to say it is ok for you not to have a plan for providing a home that is safe for your son. Those of us with difficult children thoroughly understand your disappointment, your confusion and your resentment that the system caused you unnecessary grief. BUT...if you have to cut expenses to the bone, take a minimum wage job or two, apply for food stamps and supplemental income from the government..just do it. To transition from a home, two dogs and a sense of security into the unknown has to be anxiety filled for you. I don't see that you have any choice and the sooner you fall back and regroup the sooner you will be headed for a reunited family. Try temp jobs. Try holiday openings. Sign up to do the census. Accept multiple jobs sense you are living alone and can do it. Sell your unneeded things. Try to find foster homes for the fuzzbutts. Focus on the one and only really important goal...find a safe (even if much smaller) place to call home and make it your own. I've been there done that and it is bad news but you are an adult who is healthy and bright. Look at it as an opportunity and go for it. DDD [/QUOTE]
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