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Peace... finally.
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 365326"><p>I think you already know in your heart that giving giving giving and getting little or nothing in return is not serving this young man well. (hugs).</p><p>You might consider limiting phone conversations with him and only supply him with funding (for now) for things of utmost importance...for example school, medicine, etc.</p><p>Nothing wrong with- going to a community college. In fact, I would encourage all efforts to go to school. As long as he goes to school, I would consider helping him with those important things I mentioned. I would not support his social life (like Fran mentioned). If he doesn't go to school....well...not sure I would help him financially at all.</p><p>My guess....this was his actual wish...to go to community college.</p><p>Glad you are finding peace....I would go with this!</p><p>If he doesn't wish to go to a counselor and you still feel heartache over all of this...I would go yourself. Enjoy life...move forward. It's your time. He'll figure it all out, in his time. Little to nothing you can do about this. Might as well continue to explore this peace you have mentioned...and let it blossom into profound joy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 365326"] I think you already know in your heart that giving giving giving and getting little or nothing in return is not serving this young man well. (hugs). You might consider limiting phone conversations with him and only supply him with funding (for now) for things of utmost importance...for example school, medicine, etc. Nothing wrong with- going to a community college. In fact, I would encourage all efforts to go to school. As long as he goes to school, I would consider helping him with those important things I mentioned. I would not support his social life (like Fran mentioned). If he doesn't go to school....well...not sure I would help him financially at all. My guess....this was his actual wish...to go to community college. Glad you are finding peace....I would go with this! If he doesn't wish to go to a counselor and you still feel heartache over all of this...I would go yourself. Enjoy life...move forward. It's your time. He'll figure it all out, in his time. Little to nothing you can do about this. Might as well continue to explore this peace you have mentioned...and let it blossom into profound joy. [/QUOTE]
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