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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 71160" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>Witz, I read something a long time ago that relationships that don't end peacefully - never end - truer words were never written.</p><p></p><p>Am sorry that it still upsets you after all of this time the drama that went on years ago. I don't think its much a matter of forgiving or forgetting, just one of letting it go and not having the urge to still want to defend yourself or your position- your X is never ever going to "get it" (believe me, most X's never do - mine is still stuck on stupid after all of these years-I wish I had a dime for everytime I tell him that his son is an alcoholic, and the last thing he needs is a beer - but every dang time he comes over to the house, he makes a stop at Trader Joe's - to him its some weird bonding thing tossing back a few with his boys)</p><p></p><p>A horses rear end will always be a horses rear end. Take comfort in your knowing the truth.</p><p></p><p>I know you didn't ask for opinions :smile: but I am with Suz since I have "known" you for a while LOL - step back and not get into whether or not you like the idea of asking your son and the daughter from both of you to dinner or X inserting his two cents worth into your son and daughters relationship. I feel bad it makes you nuts. He is not going to give you the respect you deserve and should have.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 71160, member: 47"] Witz, I read something a long time ago that relationships that don't end peacefully - never end - truer words were never written. Am sorry that it still upsets you after all of this time the drama that went on years ago. I don't think its much a matter of forgiving or forgetting, just one of letting it go and not having the urge to still want to defend yourself or your position- your X is never ever going to "get it" (believe me, most X's never do - mine is still stuck on stupid after all of these years-I wish I had a dime for everytime I tell him that his son is an alcoholic, and the last thing he needs is a beer - but every dang time he comes over to the house, he makes a stop at Trader Joe's - to him its some weird bonding thing tossing back a few with his boys) A horses rear end will always be a horses rear end. Take comfort in your knowing the truth. I know you didn't ask for opinions [img]:smile:[/img] but I am with Suz since I have "known" you for a while LOL - step back and not get into whether or not you like the idea of asking your son and the daughter from both of you to dinner or X inserting his two cents worth into your son and daughters relationship. I feel bad it makes you nuts. He is not going to give you the respect you deserve and should have. Hugs Marcie [/QUOTE]
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