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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 155068" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Witz, I just wanted to let you know that I could relate to this in a few ways. The dynamics in your family sound so similar to mine, even though the specific incidences are different. I have spent sooo many hours- days- of my life wondering if a couple of people in my family are really that mean or just that clueless. As time passes and I have kept my distance, I remember certain things said and done over the years (like what you are doing now) and it seems to me that they are just that self-centered and have so many deep issues that they can't even see how sick their way of thinking is. I have had family members sell me out time and time again, not because I did anything wrong or deserved it, but just so they could use their "stories" (ok, LIES) to manipulate others into doing what they wanted. I can't imagine how much insecurity or illusion or denial a person has to have within themselves to do things like this- and to seem like they don't even care. It sounds to me like your sister is this way, too. </p><p></p><p>Did you mail the letter?</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 155068, member: 3699"] Witz, I just wanted to let you know that I could relate to this in a few ways. The dynamics in your family sound so similar to mine, even though the specific incidences are different. I have spent sooo many hours- days- of my life wondering if a couple of people in my family are really that mean or just that clueless. As time passes and I have kept my distance, I remember certain things said and done over the years (like what you are doing now) and it seems to me that they are just that self-centered and have so many deep issues that they can't even see how sick their way of thinking is. I have had family members sell me out time and time again, not because I did anything wrong or deserved it, but just so they could use their "stories" (ok, LIES) to manipulate others into doing what they wanted. I can't imagine how much insecurity or illusion or denial a person has to have within themselves to do things like this- and to seem like they don't even care. It sounds to me like your sister is this way, too. Did you mail the letter? ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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