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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 276334" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>I have a legal separation for about 15 years. I didn't go any further in getting the divorce as Ca. is a community property state and I would have been on the hook for 1,500 a month alimony and would have probably had to sell my house, the one that was legally "A married woman as her sole & separate property", or pay him back half the house payment I had made since the house was purchased.</p><p> </p><p>Right now, whats his is his, whats mine is mine and neither one of us has a legal obligation for the other one. He does however, get half of my Social Security when he hits 62 as we were married for more than 10 years. </p><p> </p><p>It made me chuckle about your husband's car. I have been telling my dex (who is still in residence) that he needs to put oil in his car - he kept telling me I was wrong - what did I know about cars. Yesterday SO was outside when dex drove up and when he got out of the car, SO told him to open the hood for a minute. Not ONE drop of oil was in the thing. SO told him NOT to drive it another foot, they would go to the auto parts store and get oil which they did first thing in the morning. SO said one of his headers is pretty much fried, and the car isn't going to last long.</p><p> </p><p>My dex's problem isn't the passive/agressive thing, he just goes straight to clueless..</p><p> </p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 276334, member: 47"] I have a legal separation for about 15 years. I didn't go any further in getting the divorce as Ca. is a community property state and I would have been on the hook for 1,500 a month alimony and would have probably had to sell my house, the one that was legally "A married woman as her sole & separate property", or pay him back half the house payment I had made since the house was purchased. Right now, whats his is his, whats mine is mine and neither one of us has a legal obligation for the other one. He does however, get half of my Social Security when he hits 62 as we were married for more than 10 years. It made me chuckle about your husband's car. I have been telling my dex (who is still in residence) that he needs to put oil in his car - he kept telling me I was wrong - what did I know about cars. Yesterday SO was outside when dex drove up and when he got out of the car, SO told him to open the hood for a minute. Not ONE drop of oil was in the thing. SO told him NOT to drive it another foot, they would go to the auto parts store and get oil which they did first thing in the morning. SO said one of his headers is pretty much fried, and the car isn't going to last long. My dex's problem isn't the passive/agressive thing, he just goes straight to clueless.. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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