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<blockquote data-quote="Abbey" data-source="post: 310456" data-attributes="member: 179"><p>Ditto all the replies. It did not help my marriage, but it helped me make the decisions I knew I needed to make for myself. </p><p> </p><p>Probably the most helpful thing for me was going through a program sponsored by my church called Divorce Care. It was a group setting. Each week we had to journal our thoughts and were given a task. Probably the single most thing that I was in denial of was that I was not just hurt but incredibly angry. Anger is not something that comes easy for me. That was a process. Still going through that.</p><p> </p><p>That being said, I'm still with H, but we're just roommates for a variety of reasons...mostly financial and immediate family health issues.</p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry Beth that you have to be thinking about this, but it might help you 'uncloud' your thoughts.</p><p> </p><p>Finally, think about when you are an empty nester. Once the kids are gone it's just you and husband. I had this fairy tale thought that we could do all the things you can't when kids are around...but I couldn't think of anything I wanted to do with him, nor he could with me. We just kind of stared at each other.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs.</p><p> </p><p>Abbey</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Abbey, post: 310456, member: 179"] Ditto all the replies. It did not help my marriage, but it helped me make the decisions I knew I needed to make for myself. Probably the most helpful thing for me was going through a program sponsored by my church called Divorce Care. It was a group setting. Each week we had to journal our thoughts and were given a task. Probably the single most thing that I was in denial of was that I was not just hurt but incredibly angry. Anger is not something that comes easy for me. That was a process. Still going through that. That being said, I'm still with H, but we're just roommates for a variety of reasons...mostly financial and immediate family health issues. I'm sorry Beth that you have to be thinking about this, but it might help you 'uncloud' your thoughts. Finally, think about when you are an empty nester. Once the kids are gone it's just you and husband. I had this fairy tale thought that we could do all the things you can't when kids are around...but I couldn't think of anything I wanted to do with him, nor he could with me. We just kind of stared at each other. Hugs. Abbey [/QUOTE]
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