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Pfffftttt....well so much for family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 315767" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thank you, Susie. As always, your support means a lot to me. The first obstacle of course, is to see if therapist will still recommend difficult child coming home even when I am not going to buy into the theory that me being too strict is the cause of his problems. Second is to get the job in HI. I am sure at this point that I don't want to stay in this area- I just don't have any offers to go someplace else yet.</p><p></p><p>difficult child told me the last visitation that even if I had these "strict" rules, he would still rather come home. However, he said he would move out when he's 18 (typical, I know), and looked at me like he was livid. I do honestly believe that therapist is correct in that he is trying, I just think the messages that these people are sending him serve to make him more confused and feel justified rather than keep him on a good track. I know they don't see it and it is BEYOND ME why they don't.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, difficult child might throw in the towel soon himself and tell them he just wants to go someplace else besides home.</p><p></p><p>Here I deal with one extreme from the sd's psychiatric writing a report like difficult child is a psychopath who's a danger to society to another extreme of his therapist acting like he's a easy child who just was driven to all this by me. And they say parents are at fault for having "black and white" thinking.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 315767, member: 3699"] Thank you, Susie. As always, your support means a lot to me. The first obstacle of course, is to see if therapist will still recommend difficult child coming home even when I am not going to buy into the theory that me being too strict is the cause of his problems. Second is to get the job in HI. I am sure at this point that I don't want to stay in this area- I just don't have any offers to go someplace else yet. difficult child told me the last visitation that even if I had these "strict" rules, he would still rather come home. However, he said he would move out when he's 18 (typical, I know), and looked at me like he was livid. I do honestly believe that therapist is correct in that he is trying, I just think the messages that these people are sending him serve to make him more confused and feel justified rather than keep him on a good track. I know they don't see it and it is BEYOND ME why they don't. Anyway, difficult child might throw in the towel soon himself and tell them he just wants to go someplace else besides home. Here I deal with one extreme from the sd's psychiatric writing a report like difficult child is a psychopath who's a danger to society to another extreme of his therapist acting like he's a easy child who just was driven to all this by me. And they say parents are at fault for having "black and white" thinking..... [/QUOTE]
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