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Pfffftttt....well so much for family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="skeeter" data-source="post: 316114" data-attributes="member: 439"><p>Does you child (he still is one) have no concept of self control? It sounds like that's what the therapist is saying - he did all of this because of "you".</p><p></p><p>If that's the case (he has no self control), why would you GIVE him freedom? If he has no self control, then he needs to have it applied from outside.</p><p></p><p>This is so "bass ackwards" thinking I can't wrap my head around it.</p><p></p><p></p><p>"I can't do what is right because someone else made me do wrong".</p><p></p><p></p><p>"Oh, I'm sorry, then we must give you freedom and no rules. Then you will obviously do what is right."</p><p></p><p></p><p>I certainly need some type of explanation on THAT thinking...............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="skeeter, post: 316114, member: 439"] Does you child (he still is one) have no concept of self control? It sounds like that's what the therapist is saying - he did all of this because of "you". If that's the case (he has no self control), why would you GIVE him freedom? If he has no self control, then he needs to have it applied from outside. This is so "bass ackwards" thinking I can't wrap my head around it. "I can't do what is right because someone else made me do wrong". "Oh, I'm sorry, then we must give you freedom and no rules. Then you will obviously do what is right." I certainly need some type of explanation on THAT thinking............... [/QUOTE]
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