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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 255860"><p>Thank you all for your responses. I agree that this makes no sense and I am really questioning whether this Shelly person actually means well or is just playing a very cruel game with us. The fact that this person knew my sister's full name and cell number is what scares me the most. She also knows my daughter's real name. B is going by an alias because she is a fugitive. She doesn't give out her real name to anyone!!! That is why I am more apt to believe that this person is telling the truth or that there is some truth to what she is telling us. Like you all said though, my daughter sounds fine! I just don't get it.</p><p></p><p>Dazed, I so agree. Whatever my daughter is doing, she made the choice. There isn't anything I can do for her. She is the only one who can change her life. She needs to help herself. I was doing so well with accepting that and detaching, but when I get these horrific phone calls it brings all of the emotions right back to the surface. As her mother, I feel the need to help her if she is in deed in danger!!! The sad part is, let's say I find her, I turn her in to the police, she goes back to jail and then at some point she will be released and do this all over again. I know that will happen. So, what am I supposed to keep on going through this forever??? I am acting on this only because of the phone calls. Before the calls, I knew in my heart she was all along putting herself at risk, I was doing well with detaching from the need to save her. Then the calls started coming. Now I am a nervous wreck. And I am very angry at her at the same time. I just have to find a way to get used to this as I know this is what my future holds! Thanks for that mojo!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 255860"] Thank you all for your responses. I agree that this makes no sense and I am really questioning whether this Shelly person actually means well or is just playing a very cruel game with us. The fact that this person knew my sister's full name and cell number is what scares me the most. She also knows my daughter's real name. B is going by an alias because she is a fugitive. She doesn't give out her real name to anyone!!! That is why I am more apt to believe that this person is telling the truth or that there is some truth to what she is telling us. Like you all said though, my daughter sounds fine! I just don't get it. Dazed, I so agree. Whatever my daughter is doing, she made the choice. There isn't anything I can do for her. She is the only one who can change her life. She needs to help herself. I was doing so well with accepting that and detaching, but when I get these horrific phone calls it brings all of the emotions right back to the surface. As her mother, I feel the need to help her if she is in deed in danger!!! The sad part is, let's say I find her, I turn her in to the police, she goes back to jail and then at some point she will be released and do this all over again. I know that will happen. So, what am I supposed to keep on going through this forever??? I am acting on this only because of the phone calls. Before the calls, I knew in my heart she was all along putting herself at risk, I was doing well with detaching from the need to save her. Then the calls started coming. Now I am a nervous wreck. And I am very angry at her at the same time. I just have to find a way to get used to this as I know this is what my future holds! Thanks for that mojo!!! :) [/QUOTE]
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