Thanks for all of the good thoughts. I guess I'm doing as well as can be expected. I'm one of those people who just puts one foot in front of the other without thinking no matter what happens. Got my mother moved in here on Saturday. I really need difficult child 2 to help with her but he has court tomorrow so that may be the last I see of him in a few months. He is having another CAT scan on his head today. Don't know what they will find. Merry bleeping Christmas to you all.