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Please Help?? 6 YO Daughter Possible ODD, Borderline (BPD), or ADHD??
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 460520" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Fortunately I have never dealt with violence but I do know from the Board family that there is a specific method to be used to restrain an out of control child. How is it done? I don't know. But I do know that parents here have learned it and I do know that support personnel in schools and hospitals have learned how to restrain even large children with-o causing damage to the child or the adult.</p><p></p><p>I know that some parents have used the police (and obviously that choice and all choices are solely up to you and your husband) however due to her size and her age I would suggest learning the restraint method and using it consistently when she gets out of control. She is not choosing to be act out with such extreme actions. </p><p></p><p>Meanwhile are you keeping a journal? Keeping a written journal (entries do not have to be long) is extremely helpful when parenting a difficult child. Sometimes the parent "sees" patterns in their own written words that escape them in dealing day to day with stress. More importantly your journal will allow you to "show" the Doctor how frequently she is out of control, what if anything seems to trigger the behavior. and what actions she takes. Almost all of us have used journals to support our kids as we attempt to find the answers. I highly recommend it. Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 460520, member: 35"] Fortunately I have never dealt with violence but I do know from the Board family that there is a specific method to be used to restrain an out of control child. How is it done? I don't know. But I do know that parents here have learned it and I do know that support personnel in schools and hospitals have learned how to restrain even large children with-o causing damage to the child or the adult. I know that some parents have used the police (and obviously that choice and all choices are solely up to you and your husband) however due to her size and her age I would suggest learning the restraint method and using it consistently when she gets out of control. She is not choosing to be act out with such extreme actions. Meanwhile are you keeping a journal? Keeping a written journal (entries do not have to be long) is extremely helpful when parenting a difficult child. Sometimes the parent "sees" patterns in their own written words that escape them in dealing day to day with stress. More importantly your journal will allow you to "show" the Doctor how frequently she is out of control, what if anything seems to trigger the behavior. and what actions she takes. Almost all of us have used journals to support our kids as we attempt to find the answers. I highly recommend it. Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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