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Please Help?? 6 YO Daughter Possible ODD, Borderline (BPD), or ADHD??
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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 461267"><p>Wow you could be describing my difficult child 1 ages 3 - 10. Minus the allergies and bone marrow problems. I used a restraining hold I was taught as a sp ed teacher when he got violent. I also had a time out room. So, I would restrain him only long enough to get him into the room. Then he stayed in the room until he calmed down. I had to learn to respond with no emotion to says like "I'm going to kill myself" "I'm going to kill (insert siblings name)" When he pulled a knife on me my voice did shake a bit. I had set consequences and stuck to them. difficult child 1 needed boundaries. He needed to know that no matter what he did I would react in the way he needed and boy did he test that. I also believe that a child will do well if they can. And they need lots of positives. So, if she wants a star chart get her one. And every time she smiles at you put a star on the chart or if she does anything good (put a star on the chart because she has pretty eyes.) difficult child 1 also would get mad if I said anything nice to him. He viewed it is a type of manipulation. I continued to say nice things to him and after a few years he started to accept it. </p><p></p><p>difficult child 1 has a few dxs. We're still sorting out if he is bipolar. He is Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and PTSD and a secondary diagnosis (because it can be a part of both of the other dxs) is anxiety. I'm not diagnosis your daughter. I'm not a doctor. She probably has more than one diagnosis going on. It took a neuropych following difficult child 1 around for 2-3 DAYS in the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) to get the Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) diagnosis. It can be very hard to diagnosis multiple diagnosis's. difficult child 1 had seen a neuropych before and she didn't catch the dxs. Before the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) all I could get was it was a 'mood something'. </p><p></p><p>Glad your starting the process of the evaluations and welcome to the best place on the web.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 461267"] Wow you could be describing my difficult child 1 ages 3 - 10. Minus the allergies and bone marrow problems. I used a restraining hold I was taught as a sp ed teacher when he got violent. I also had a time out room. So, I would restrain him only long enough to get him into the room. Then he stayed in the room until he calmed down. I had to learn to respond with no emotion to says like "I'm going to kill myself" "I'm going to kill (insert siblings name)" When he pulled a knife on me my voice did shake a bit. I had set consequences and stuck to them. difficult child 1 needed boundaries. He needed to know that no matter what he did I would react in the way he needed and boy did he test that. I also believe that a child will do well if they can. And they need lots of positives. So, if she wants a star chart get her one. And every time she smiles at you put a star on the chart or if she does anything good (put a star on the chart because she has pretty eyes.) difficult child 1 also would get mad if I said anything nice to him. He viewed it is a type of manipulation. I continued to say nice things to him and after a few years he started to accept it. difficult child 1 has a few dxs. We're still sorting out if he is bipolar. He is Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and PTSD and a secondary diagnosis (because it can be a part of both of the other dxs) is anxiety. I'm not diagnosis your daughter. I'm not a doctor. She probably has more than one diagnosis going on. It took a neuropych following difficult child 1 around for 2-3 DAYS in the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) to get the Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) diagnosis. It can be very hard to diagnosis multiple diagnosis's. difficult child 1 had seen a neuropych before and she didn't catch the dxs. Before the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) all I could get was it was a 'mood something'. Glad your starting the process of the evaluations and welcome to the best place on the web. [/QUOTE]
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