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Please help - I just found her meth pipe!
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 405658" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Ladies I am sorry you are hurting. Please know I go through all the same emotions you do. If I allow myself to go into that dark place in my head where I think about what was missed and what could have been I am overwhelmed with grief. I am not good at detaching and PatriotsGirl I understand how hard this is for you. I have yet been able to kick my difficult child out and make it stick. I have panic attacks when she is gone for a couple days. </p><p></p><p>I read the comments my difficult child puts on her fb wall too and want to ask her how it's working for her, but she would say "fine". Most of them have to do with having no regrets and living life. I've never understood the no regrets things. I have many regrets in my life. It's how I change the negative things that are not working for me. It's how I make amends to those I have hurt. I am often tempted to defriend my difficult child just so I don't have to read her comments and see the druggies she is friends with, but then I am afraid.</p><p></p><p>Toughlovin you are in a better place than I am. I want so much to detach and understand that she is making the choice to live her life like this. But then I think about her faulty wiring and the fact that she doesn't think like we do and I worry so much for her future. I have always been a fixit kind of person. Long ago one of my bosses said he would not take "can't do it" for an answer and that for every problem there is a solution. I guess I've lived my life that way and it's hard to not try to fix her.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 405658, member: 59"] Ladies I am sorry you are hurting. Please know I go through all the same emotions you do. If I allow myself to go into that dark place in my head where I think about what was missed and what could have been I am overwhelmed with grief. I am not good at detaching and PatriotsGirl I understand how hard this is for you. I have yet been able to kick my difficult child out and make it stick. I have panic attacks when she is gone for a couple days. I read the comments my difficult child puts on her fb wall too and want to ask her how it's working for her, but she would say "fine". Most of them have to do with having no regrets and living life. I've never understood the no regrets things. I have many regrets in my life. It's how I change the negative things that are not working for me. It's how I make amends to those I have hurt. I am often tempted to defriend my difficult child just so I don't have to read her comments and see the druggies she is friends with, but then I am afraid. Toughlovin you are in a better place than I am. I want so much to detach and understand that she is making the choice to live her life like this. But then I think about her faulty wiring and the fact that she doesn't think like we do and I worry so much for her future. I have always been a fixit kind of person. Long ago one of my bosses said he would not take "can't do it" for an answer and that for every problem there is a solution. I guess I've lived my life that way and it's hard to not try to fix her. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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