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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 439745" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>First - welcome. We're never happy that parents need to find "us", but glad that those who need to, DO. </p><p></p><p>Second - Repeat after me: I am NOT a bad mommy. I am NOT a bad mommy...</p><p></p><p>This is NOT because of anything you are doing. Your daughter has problems, and needs help - getting help for her problems will also help the rest of the family.</p><p></p><p>Has she ever been evaluated for anything? If so, for what? by whom? when? any diagnoses? any medications?</p><p></p><p>What is the family structure - it sounds like you have more than one child... </p><p></p><p>If you're starting from scratch... for a minimum, there are likely sensory issues - sometimes its as simple as tags on clothes that set some kids off - too much noise, bright lights, beign "bumped" , etc. These can be related to more than one possible diagnosis, so I won't guess.</p><p></p><p>Have you seen "the book"? Around here, that's "The Explosive Child" (author: Green, I think). It doesn't fit every child, but might be somewhere to start at least - see if the library might have a copy, for starters.</p><p></p><p>You might want to start a Parent Report (see site resources) - you'll need it for when you go through various cycles of evaluations, so might as well start prep work.</p><p></p><p>When you have a few extra minutes, try setting up a "sig" (signature) - it shows up on the bottom of each post - some are brief, like mine, others longer... but it tells the other posters about your situation so we "remember" the situation.</p><p></p><p>Take a deep breath. You are not alone. It isn't "bad mommy syndrome". We understand.</p><p>Again, welcome.</p><p></p><p>Others will be along with more specific questions and/or advice...!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 439745, member: 11791"] First - welcome. We're never happy that parents need to find "us", but glad that those who need to, DO. Second - Repeat after me: I am NOT a bad mommy. I am NOT a bad mommy... This is NOT because of anything you are doing. Your daughter has problems, and needs help - getting help for her problems will also help the rest of the family. Has she ever been evaluated for anything? If so, for what? by whom? when? any diagnoses? any medications? What is the family structure - it sounds like you have more than one child... If you're starting from scratch... for a minimum, there are likely sensory issues - sometimes its as simple as tags on clothes that set some kids off - too much noise, bright lights, beign "bumped" , etc. These can be related to more than one possible diagnosis, so I won't guess. Have you seen "the book"? Around here, that's "The Explosive Child" (author: Green, I think). It doesn't fit every child, but might be somewhere to start at least - see if the library might have a copy, for starters. You might want to start a Parent Report (see site resources) - you'll need it for when you go through various cycles of evaluations, so might as well start prep work. When you have a few extra minutes, try setting up a "sig" (signature) - it shows up on the bottom of each post - some are brief, like mine, others longer... but it tells the other posters about your situation so we "remember" the situation. Take a deep breath. You are not alone. It isn't "bad mommy syndrome". We understand. Again, welcome. Others will be along with more specific questions and/or advice...! [/QUOTE]
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