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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 720034" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>tortuga. i am sorry.</p><p></p><p>i would try to have no contact with her. For starters I would try to get to narcotics anomymous. If you are able, every day.</p><p></p><p>she is doing a very bad thing but it is not her responsibility that you use drugs. What she is doing is what addicts do. She cannot be permitted near you. i am not saying to absolve her. i am saying that the change will come from you. baby steps. support and boundaries. </p><p></p><p>You took a big, big step to post here. brave and hopeful.</p><p></p><p>We are the ones who very often consent to our own destruction. especially at the hands of our children. you deserve safety, security and peace. The first thing is support. And accepting that you and your life are worth protecting. you have already demonstrated to yourself how very strong you are.</p><p></p><p>i hope you keep posting. I do not mean to be harsh here. But you are the one who answers the phone and opens the door. this is something we can learn to stop.. it is a process. i for one have had a very hard time with boundaries. i am still struggling too. </p><p></p><p>you are worth this and a million times more.</p><p></p><p>Almost all of us were in the same place. Each of us is learning these same skills. You are not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 720034, member: 18958"] tortuga. i am sorry. i would try to have no contact with her. For starters I would try to get to narcotics anomymous. If you are able, every day. she is doing a very bad thing but it is not her responsibility that you use drugs. What she is doing is what addicts do. She cannot be permitted near you. i am not saying to absolve her. i am saying that the change will come from you. baby steps. support and boundaries. You took a big, big step to post here. brave and hopeful. We are the ones who very often consent to our own destruction. especially at the hands of our children. you deserve safety, security and peace. The first thing is support. And accepting that you and your life are worth protecting. you have already demonstrated to yourself how very strong you are. i hope you keep posting. I do not mean to be harsh here. But you are the one who answers the phone and opens the door. this is something we can learn to stop.. it is a process. i for one have had a very hard time with boundaries. i am still struggling too. you are worth this and a million times more. Almost all of us were in the same place. Each of us is learning these same skills. You are not alone. [/QUOTE]
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