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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 686846" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>The thing is a child does not have a way of understanding what is happening to him internally. Not a way to interpret it or even to explain what is happening internally. </p><p></p><p>They may interpret what they feel as being a bad boy. They may feel it to be a punishment. They may just rage against it from fear and frustration. They may put a name to the feelings and externalize blame. And rebel against all of it. And then it passes. Who knows what he feels and what he is making of it? How alone he must feel when this is happening. </p><p></p><p>Think of a baby with colic. Or a hungry baby. Furious. Inconsolable. That is your son. He cannot communicate what is happening to him. How he feels inside.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 686846, member: 18958"] The thing is a child does not have a way of understanding what is happening to him internally. Not a way to interpret it or even to explain what is happening internally. They may interpret what they feel as being a bad boy. They may feel it to be a punishment. They may just rage against it from fear and frustration. They may put a name to the feelings and externalize blame. And rebel against all of it. And then it passes. Who knows what he feels and what he is making of it? How alone he must feel when this is happening. Think of a baby with colic. Or a hungry baby. Furious. Inconsolable. That is your son. He cannot communicate what is happening to him. How he feels inside. [/QUOTE]
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