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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 67247" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>I know exactly what this frustation feels like, my difficult child was completely like this with everything. He was suspended from school so often, and we punished him by not allowing him to go out. He could earn it back though by cleaning his room. by the way his room looked like a tornado hit it. Literally. But he would rather just take the punishment. I never understand-all he had to do was clean it. This went on forever, when he was 5 through H.S. I think it was a power thing. Plus he just didn't care. It was fun upsetting me. Just like all his difficult child behavior, and entire personality,it was about bugging everyone he came in contact with. He never tired of this, this is how he behaves now at age 20. Persoally, he kept his door shut, I never went in there. It is so hard when the child seems to be "in charge". But stick with what you're doing. Don't let her go out, or do fun activities. ANYTHING. She will get tired of not going out, and maybe it will take awhile, just wait her out. I made the mistake that difficult child had fun things in his room. Take away all fun things if you can. Have her bring them to you, not telling her why at first.- Hang in there, (((hugs)))-Alyssa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 67247, member: 2668"] I know exactly what this frustation feels like, my difficult child was completely like this with everything. He was suspended from school so often, and we punished him by not allowing him to go out. He could earn it back though by cleaning his room. by the way his room looked like a tornado hit it. Literally. But he would rather just take the punishment. I never understand-all he had to do was clean it. This went on forever, when he was 5 through H.S. I think it was a power thing. Plus he just didn't care. It was fun upsetting me. Just like all his difficult child behavior, and entire personality,it was about bugging everyone he came in contact with. He never tired of this, this is how he behaves now at age 20. Persoally, he kept his door shut, I never went in there. It is so hard when the child seems to be "in charge". But stick with what you're doing. Don't let her go out, or do fun activities. ANYTHING. She will get tired of not going out, and maybe it will take awhile, just wait her out. I made the mistake that difficult child had fun things in his room. Take away all fun things if you can. Have her bring them to you, not telling her why at first.- Hang in there, (((hugs)))-Alyssa [/QUOTE]
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