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<blockquote data-quote="candiecotton" data-source="post: 356457"><p>Starting last night G was in one of her moods , yelling screaming upsetting her sister . this morning it got worse she asked to be called @ 7 & i did that as she "nicely" asked last night .She did not get up till 7:30 & by this time D was in the shower ( hes been @ the university all day with school) & that set her off .She yelled & screamed so much our downstairs neighbor banged on the celing. she has taken $20 out of the van last night & got caught . aside from the screaming & yelling she was getting her sister upset again to the point she was crying ( C has adhd & because she was up late last night she was a little tired & easily agrivated) she had threatend to run away & or kill herself so when we went out i was going to walk S&C to school C had the dog with her because we will walk him in the morning & hubby was going to bring G to school as she had missed the bus & the next one was too late.( she doesnt go to the neighborhood school because they said it would be a good idea if she didnt go back ) & when we were outside she took out her lunch & started to take her sandwich out & throw it around . I said this is the last straw & to give ebveryone a break that she is to go to the group home tonight to let us not want to tie her up & throw her in the closet for the weekend ( joking just joking) then she said that she hates me & that she will run away & while shes gone she will kill herself. i told her that this is what will have her not be able to stay in the house tonight & because shes threatend to run away she would be better not going to school & to go straight to the group home . she then saisd shes going to call our worker & tell her that we are hitting C&S & have them taken away on us aginn. i would not answer her all the way into the group home & when i got there i told the socal worker in there what she was doing & asked if any one had told them about her diagnosis & she said no . i told her that G has odd & most likely ADHD . she said to me this is supposed to be a professional now she said that the dr could not make such a diagnosis on a hour conversation with the child. now the dr had reports from 3 schools as well as 2 different councelors. </p><p> i went to work this morning wanting a stiff drink .</p><p>now tonight hubby asked if she shold be feeling guilty for sending her away for the weekend ( i need the break because shes been horrible this week ) i said no he shouldnt because this is what she needed . but now im afraid that the worker will take her away & ofd course the threat that she will take C&S away is there too because they have believed G lies before. </p><p>i was so frustradted tihis morning that it took ,e 20 minutes when i got to work to calm down i was to the point that i was in tears with frustration. </p><p> so please tell me im not a bad mom for sending her away for the weekend so i wont hurt her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="candiecotton, post: 356457"] Starting last night G was in one of her moods , yelling screaming upsetting her sister . this morning it got worse she asked to be called @ 7 & i did that as she "nicely" asked last night .She did not get up till 7:30 & by this time D was in the shower ( hes been @ the university all day with school) & that set her off .She yelled & screamed so much our downstairs neighbor banged on the celing. she has taken $20 out of the van last night & got caught . aside from the screaming & yelling she was getting her sister upset again to the point she was crying ( C has adhd & because she was up late last night she was a little tired & easily agrivated) she had threatend to run away & or kill herself so when we went out i was going to walk S&C to school C had the dog with her because we will walk him in the morning & hubby was going to bring G to school as she had missed the bus & the next one was too late.( she doesnt go to the neighborhood school because they said it would be a good idea if she didnt go back ) & when we were outside she took out her lunch & started to take her sandwich out & throw it around . I said this is the last straw & to give ebveryone a break that she is to go to the group home tonight to let us not want to tie her up & throw her in the closet for the weekend ( joking just joking) then she said that she hates me & that she will run away & while shes gone she will kill herself. i told her that this is what will have her not be able to stay in the house tonight & because shes threatend to run away she would be better not going to school & to go straight to the group home . she then saisd shes going to call our worker & tell her that we are hitting C&S & have them taken away on us aginn. i would not answer her all the way into the group home & when i got there i told the socal worker in there what she was doing & asked if any one had told them about her diagnosis & she said no . i told her that G has odd & most likely ADHD . she said to me this is supposed to be a professional now she said that the dr could not make such a diagnosis on a hour conversation with the child. now the dr had reports from 3 schools as well as 2 different councelors. i went to work this morning wanting a stiff drink . now tonight hubby asked if she shold be feeling guilty for sending her away for the weekend ( i need the break because shes been horrible this week ) i said no he shouldnt because this is what she needed . but now im afraid that the worker will take her away & ofd course the threat that she will take C&S away is there too because they have believed G lies before. i was so frustradted tihis morning that it took ,e 20 minutes when i got to work to calm down i was to the point that i was in tears with frustration. so please tell me im not a bad mom for sending her away for the weekend so i wont hurt her. [/QUOTE]
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