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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 702163" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I called 911 for suicide threats too. After all, I take it seriously but I don't have the power to stop it. Guess what? The suicide threats ended.</p><p></p><p>I agree that it's good she can support herself. You don't have to worry about that and that's good.</p><p></p><p>When she says she has always felt unloved, don't take it personally. Part of borderline disorder is always feeling unloved and even if you told her you loved her 24/7 it wouldn't work. Setting boundaries and sticking to them is imperative if you want a relationship with a borderline and it will always be up, down, around, chaotic and at times abusive. So you need to learn when to walk away and to be firm and consistent.</p><p></p><p>Do buy "Walking on Eggshells." It is online, in all bookstores and probably in the library. And also check the online support forum called BorderlineCentral.com. Learn all you can so that you are not d surprised and don't feel guilty. Learn how to protect yourself. And take good care of YOU. You can not cure your daughter, you can only be nice to yourself. And you should.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 702163, member: 1550"] I called 911 for suicide threats too. After all, I take it seriously but I don't have the power to stop it. Guess what? The suicide threats ended. I agree that it's good she can support herself. You don't have to worry about that and that's good. When she says she has always felt unloved, don't take it personally. Part of borderline disorder is always feeling unloved and even if you told her you loved her 24/7 it wouldn't work. Setting boundaries and sticking to them is imperative if you want a relationship with a borderline and it will always be up, down, around, chaotic and at times abusive. So you need to learn when to walk away and to be firm and consistent. Do buy "Walking on Eggshells." It is online, in all bookstores and probably in the library. And also check the online support forum called BorderlineCentral.com. Learn all you can so that you are not d surprised and don't feel guilty. Learn how to protect yourself. And take good care of YOU. You can not cure your daughter, you can only be nice to yourself. And you should. [/QUOTE]
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