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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 693623" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I don't know if they are ashamed or just don't want us to bug them. I don't think my daughter was ashamed, just trying to cover her tracks. And you know what? If my daughter told me ANY THING while she used, it was fudged or softened or a lie. And other people are really not going to hold back their drinking or drug use for somebody else. Our addicted and troubled adult kids need to avoid triggers because triggers are everywhere. It's up to them to be careful. Non addicts usually don't stop drinking because someone else has a drug problem. </p><p></p><p>I think our adult kids on in survival mode when they are in danger. I'm not so sure they think about us much except for what they want us to provide. Im not sire their first concetn is us. More like theor forst concern is not getting caught.They get real as they get healthy, if indeed they do. I hope they all do.</p><p></p><p>That's been my experience anyway. I don't believe anyone on drugs is truthful. JmO</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 693623, member: 1550"] I don't know if they are ashamed or just don't want us to bug them. I don't think my daughter was ashamed, just trying to cover her tracks. And you know what? If my daughter told me ANY THING while she used, it was fudged or softened or a lie. And other people are really not going to hold back their drinking or drug use for somebody else. Our addicted and troubled adult kids need to avoid triggers because triggers are everywhere. It's up to them to be careful. Non addicts usually don't stop drinking because someone else has a drug problem. I think our adult kids on in survival mode when they are in danger. I'm not so sure they think about us much except for what they want us to provide. Im not sire their first concetn is us. More like theor forst concern is not getting caught.They get real as they get healthy, if indeed they do. I hope they all do. That's been my experience anyway. I don't believe anyone on drugs is truthful. JmO [/QUOTE]
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