rebelson, I dont like male therapists, although I like men very much socially, maybe more than many women. But I feel they don't understand how women think and about our emotions and our hormones all working together. I only see female therapists, psychologists or psychiatrists.
Maybe that could help? in the end, a good fit is a good fit and a bad fit is, well, not helpful.
NAMI is a good resource.
I wish you luck. I hate how youre hurting.