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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 392146" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You are doing a great job with not getting pulled into her drama. I think that there is very little that she will actually DO to improve her life. If the kids are taken away from her she will have another so that she can get WIC and other things. Until she has a hysterectomy or menopause she will continue to do this because otherwise she would have no meal ticket. Offering to take Evan might be a start, but it would likely hurt the other two kids a whole lot. Why should they be punished by having to stay with loser parents in a shelter while Evan, who NEVER behaves and is hard hard hard to handle gets to go live at Gma's house with people who love him and will take care of him? They would see it as Gma and Gpa loving him more, no matter WHAT they are told as a reason for you taking just Evan into your home. Katie and M will likely use this to put a wedge between you and Kayla and Alex so that they won't want to go live with you. </p><p> </p><p>I doubt there is ANY way they will volunteer anywhere, and will do very little of what their caseworker demands - just enough to continue to stay there. I hope that CPS comes in very soon, maybe Katie will get migraines and then will have to use drugs to treat them instead of going to the doctor and using some real medicine instead of heroin or whatever she is hooked on. At this point I am pretty sure she is hooked on something. No way did all that money get used up on legal things, not with as soon as it ran out. </p><p> </p><p>Many hugs, you are doing EXACTLY right, and doing all you can. Drop me a PM anytime you want me to make the calls we discussed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 392146, member: 1233"] You are doing a great job with not getting pulled into her drama. I think that there is very little that she will actually DO to improve her life. If the kids are taken away from her she will have another so that she can get WIC and other things. Until she has a hysterectomy or menopause she will continue to do this because otherwise she would have no meal ticket. Offering to take Evan might be a start, but it would likely hurt the other two kids a whole lot. Why should they be punished by having to stay with loser parents in a shelter while Evan, who NEVER behaves and is hard hard hard to handle gets to go live at Gma's house with people who love him and will take care of him? They would see it as Gma and Gpa loving him more, no matter WHAT they are told as a reason for you taking just Evan into your home. Katie and M will likely use this to put a wedge between you and Kayla and Alex so that they won't want to go live with you. I doubt there is ANY way they will volunteer anywhere, and will do very little of what their caseworker demands - just enough to continue to stay there. I hope that CPS comes in very soon, maybe Katie will get migraines and then will have to use drugs to treat them instead of going to the doctor and using some real medicine instead of heroin or whatever she is hooked on. At this point I am pretty sure she is hooked on something. No way did all that money get used up on legal things, not with as soon as it ran out. Many hugs, you are doing EXACTLY right, and doing all you can. Drop me a PM anytime you want me to make the calls we discussed. [/QUOTE]
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