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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 392160" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I hear ya ladies. More than you know. </p><p></p><p>Star I had to chuckle at the crazy lady in your story. That is soooo katie just without the crazy part........or maybe she tosses that in for other people, I dunno. lol The poor pity me routine does not work on me. I'm not so much frustrated with her behavior, because I do realize neither of them are going to change. I am frustrated that the grands have to endure their parents, and the actions of their parents. And it does complicate the entire issue. Somewhere deep down there will always be the hope that katie could change........but seriously, like you, I know it will never happen. That doesn't frustrate me, I just find that mind set impossible to understand.</p><p></p><p>I won't take one grand without the others unless I'm forced to for the reasons Susie stated,. </p><p></p><p>There is a part of me that wishes katie had stayed in Mo. While I knew this junk was going on even there...........well, there wasn't much I could do about it due to distance alone. I thank God every day she's had her tubes tied and can't bring anymore innocent victims into the situation. The only smart adult decision the girl has ever made.</p><p></p><p>The Mo shelter (scam that it was) was cushy compared to the one they're in. I mean it is a decent place.........but in the last shelter katie had a private room in which to take refuge. She has no such place this time. So not only are the kids up in her face 24/7, but she has to deal with the other residents, their kids.......those residents kids fighting with her kids ect. It's the in your face deal that I'm counting on, because katie can't even discipline the kids in private. And now that the grands have had a big taste of normal.......they're making her life a living hades.</p><p></p><p>It won't be long before she is wide open for the idea of me taking the kids, or cps will get involved and force the issue. Meanwhile I am biding my time and focusing on the grands.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 392160, member: 84"] I hear ya ladies. More than you know. Star I had to chuckle at the crazy lady in your story. That is soooo katie just without the crazy part........or maybe she tosses that in for other people, I dunno. lol The poor pity me routine does not work on me. I'm not so much frustrated with her behavior, because I do realize neither of them are going to change. I am frustrated that the grands have to endure their parents, and the actions of their parents. And it does complicate the entire issue. Somewhere deep down there will always be the hope that katie could change........but seriously, like you, I know it will never happen. That doesn't frustrate me, I just find that mind set impossible to understand. I won't take one grand without the others unless I'm forced to for the reasons Susie stated,. There is a part of me that wishes katie had stayed in Mo. While I knew this junk was going on even there...........well, there wasn't much I could do about it due to distance alone. I thank God every day she's had her tubes tied and can't bring anymore innocent victims into the situation. The only smart adult decision the girl has ever made. The Mo shelter (scam that it was) was cushy compared to the one they're in. I mean it is a decent place.........but in the last shelter katie had a private room in which to take refuge. She has no such place this time. So not only are the kids up in her face 24/7, but she has to deal with the other residents, their kids.......those residents kids fighting with her kids ect. It's the in your face deal that I'm counting on, because katie can't even discipline the kids in private. And now that the grands have had a big taste of normal.......they're making her life a living hades. It won't be long before she is wide open for the idea of me taking the kids, or cps will get involved and force the issue. Meanwhile I am biding my time and focusing on the grands. [/QUOTE]
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