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I’m sorry about your father. I’m still trying to absorb the shock of my mother’s death four years ago. It is a very sad thing to endure. It gets better over time.


I hate to think of a baby going into foster care. The best decision, even if it’s fit wrenching, is to find a couple to adopt the baby right after birth. It’s not a decision anybody wants to make, but the baby’s needs come first. Finding an infertile couple who desperately want a baby would be the best option.


 If the the father’s parents want to raise the baby and are able, that could work, as long as they know what they’re in for, when it comes to finances, energy level, possibly delaying retirement, generation gap, etc.


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