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<blockquote data-quote="Masta" data-source="post: 123737" data-attributes="member: 308"><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">im sorry if I posted in the wrong forum, please send this over to PE. </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">Glad some of you remember my story. You are correct in thinking my difficult child has the crazy mother-in-law who bought baby stuff before difficult child even found out she was pregnant. This same mother-in-law went up to difficult children honeymoon suite that I paid for with her son to check it out while difficult child sat in the car on their honeymoon night.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">difficult child does not want to give the baby up for adoption. She believes no-one will love her baby as much as she does. We all know different.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">I have planned a meeting at my house tomorrow evening. foster care worker, foster mom, 2 sister-in-law's who have been divorced and have adopted a child out and myself and hubby plus difficult child will all meet to discuss her situation.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">difficult children old foster care worker is suggesting that my difficult child go to a women's shelter. <strong><em>They would give difficult child the counseling she needs as well as tools to help her make the right decisions. The women's shelters doesn't play along with difficult child being a victim, they are very up front in directing her on what she has to do to fix her life including helping her with public housing etc.</em></strong> Foster care worker <strong><em>will explain to difficult child she has burnt bridges and that we cannot keep rescuing her from bad choices she makes. She needs to stand on her own 2 feet and get herself out of this mess. The shelter can tell her how to do it. Foster care worker will also discuss options if difficult child wants to keep this baby and how its best to adopt it out.</em></strong></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">i don't know the laws, gov benefits of the united states, im originally from Australia. i will need to look into advising her on an annulment/divorce. </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">adoption would make her slate clean. i know how hard it was having 3 kids to a lunatic myself. Mentally, emotionally and financially difficult child is not ready to be a mom.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">I don't know how to tell her its best that she go live at a shelter when we have a nice home here. All bedrooms here are taken, my boys could bunk up, but then we would be right back where we left off 3yrs ago with her and her dramas. If I don't offer her my home she will feel we aren't there for her 100&#37;. </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">I don't know how to handle this situation.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Masta, post: 123737, member: 308"] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]im sorry if I posted in the wrong forum, please send this over to PE. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]Glad some of you remember my story. You are correct in thinking my difficult child has the crazy mother-in-law who bought baby stuff before difficult child even found out she was pregnant. This same mother-in-law went up to difficult children honeymoon suite that I paid for with her son to check it out while difficult child sat in the car on their honeymoon night.[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]difficult child does not want to give the baby up for adoption. She believes no-one will love her baby as much as she does. We all know different.[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]I have planned a meeting at my house tomorrow evening. foster care worker, foster mom, 2 sister-in-law's who have been divorced and have adopted a child out and myself and hubby plus difficult child will all meet to discuss her situation.[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]difficult children old foster care worker is suggesting that my difficult child go to a women's shelter. [B][I]They would give difficult child the counseling she needs as well as tools to help her make the right decisions. The women's shelters doesn't play along with difficult child being a victim, they are very up front in directing her on what she has to do to fix her life including helping her with public housing etc.[/I][/B] Foster care worker [B][I]will explain to difficult child she has burnt bridges and that we cannot keep rescuing her from bad choices she makes. She needs to stand on her own 2 feet and get herself out of this mess. The shelter can tell her how to do it. Foster care worker will also discuss options if difficult child wants to keep this baby and how its best to adopt it out.[/I][/B][/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]i don't know the laws, gov benefits of the united states, im originally from Australia. i will need to look into advising her on an annulment/divorce. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]adoption would make her slate clean. i know how hard it was having 3 kids to a lunatic myself. Mentally, emotionally and financially difficult child is not ready to be a mom.[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]I don't know how to tell her its best that she go live at a shelter when we have a nice home here. All bedrooms here are taken, my boys could bunk up, but then we would be right back where we left off 3yrs ago with her and her dramas. If I don't offer her my home she will feel we aren't there for her 100%. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][COLOR=#000000]I don't know how to handle this situation.[/COLOR][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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