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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 382613" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>"I know it is highly likely that you have been told that Wee can control himself when in these outbursts. The person who has made this claim does not have any training in Special Education, nor is she a trained health professional. Here are copies of the reports form health professionals. Here are reports from trained SpEd staff. Here is my report - as his mother, I have the longest, most intimate knowledge of this child on a day to day basis. I leave you to assess all the information and give each item the weight it merits according to the expertise and experience of the respective sources."</p><p></p><p>Then hand over copies of relevant paperwork. Then also discuss how in some situations Wee can be deflected if he perceives the person in authority is someone he can trust, and also that with all these kids, there are degrees of control at different times but being able to have some control at one time does not mean he has full control all the time.</p><p></p><p>And even if he does - then escalating him the way this Bprincipal has been doing, is NOT the way he should be handled. You do what works, and you stop doing what doesn't work. And what doesn't work, is to stir him up. The SpEd has been prevented from doing her job properly, by Bprincipal micromanaging in her ignorance.</p><p></p><p>All you can do is lay it on the table, then step back and wait.</p><p></p><p>And if this fails or the FBA person gets diverted, you still have things you can do.</p><p></p><p>Do the advocates have any advice for you?</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 382613, member: 1991"] "I know it is highly likely that you have been told that Wee can control himself when in these outbursts. The person who has made this claim does not have any training in Special Education, nor is she a trained health professional. Here are copies of the reports form health professionals. Here are reports from trained SpEd staff. Here is my report - as his mother, I have the longest, most intimate knowledge of this child on a day to day basis. I leave you to assess all the information and give each item the weight it merits according to the expertise and experience of the respective sources." Then hand over copies of relevant paperwork. Then also discuss how in some situations Wee can be deflected if he perceives the person in authority is someone he can trust, and also that with all these kids, there are degrees of control at different times but being able to have some control at one time does not mean he has full control all the time. And even if he does - then escalating him the way this Bprincipal has been doing, is NOT the way he should be handled. You do what works, and you stop doing what doesn't work. And what doesn't work, is to stir him up. The SpEd has been prevented from doing her job properly, by Bprincipal micromanaging in her ignorance. All you can do is lay it on the table, then step back and wait. And if this fails or the FBA person gets diverted, you still have things you can do. Do the advocates have any advice for you? Marg [/QUOTE]
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