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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 441385" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>TeDo... its the same ol', same ol'. </p><p></p><p>This place is the early intervention preschool that he attended when he was itty bitty. They are excellent, generally speaking. Except, for their summer program, they use a lot of "regular" folks and college kids, and this year, they are having to operate under the same guidelines and rules as any other daycare instead of as a special needs school. I knew that going in.</p><p></p><p>Today, his regular "teacher" was out (I did not know this). Strike one. He was tired. Strike two. There is a boy in his room that is impaired, probably mild MR, but I really don't know. Today, this boy wanted to play in Wee's fort, and Wee didn't want to share. The teachers told him he had to. He got frustrated and went into the bathroom and slammed the door.</p><p></p><p>And I'm am sure you can guess from there.</p><p></p><p>They followed, you can't do that, must come out, blah blah blah, and instead of letting him cooled off, they pushed his buttons and he got mad and hit one of the teachers.</p><p></p><p>I can see it a mile away, but I really don't think it will do any good to point it out. It is what it is. I have not received any communication from the director, so there's a very remote possibility that she'll overlook it, but I doubt it. I knew this was the deal going in, we just hoped it wouldn't be an issue. </p><p></p><p>It was.</p><p></p><p>Just so frustrating. Very soon - heck, already - he can be charged for said behavior, regardless of <em>why</em> he explodes. I'm feeling a bit defeated tonight - if he can't stop that fundamental behavior, what good is the good fight? And while that behavior is drastically reduced? Its not gone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 441385, member: 1848"] TeDo... its the same ol', same ol'. This place is the early intervention preschool that he attended when he was itty bitty. They are excellent, generally speaking. Except, for their summer program, they use a lot of "regular" folks and college kids, and this year, they are having to operate under the same guidelines and rules as any other daycare instead of as a special needs school. I knew that going in. Today, his regular "teacher" was out (I did not know this). Strike one. He was tired. Strike two. There is a boy in his room that is impaired, probably mild MR, but I really don't know. Today, this boy wanted to play in Wee's fort, and Wee didn't want to share. The teachers told him he had to. He got frustrated and went into the bathroom and slammed the door. And I'm am sure you can guess from there. They followed, you can't do that, must come out, blah blah blah, and instead of letting him cooled off, they pushed his buttons and he got mad and hit one of the teachers. I can see it a mile away, but I really don't think it will do any good to point it out. It is what it is. I have not received any communication from the director, so there's a very remote possibility that she'll overlook it, but I doubt it. I knew this was the deal going in, we just hoped it wouldn't be an issue. It was. Just so frustrating. Very soon - heck, already - he can be charged for said behavior, regardless of [I]why[/I] he explodes. I'm feeling a bit defeated tonight - if he can't stop that fundamental behavior, what good is the good fight? And while that behavior is drastically reduced? Its not gone. [/QUOTE]
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