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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 243171" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Oh I am sorry you are dealing with his issues. </p><p>I hate that you have to walk on eggshells to accommodate him.</p><p>I think the boundaries need to be set also. I think it is beyond you rehashing all of the past.</p><p>If he hasn't figured by now he wont get it. If your health and Jess' is getting affected he needs to stop.</p><p>If you are afraid her will hurt himself, I wouldn't bring up the past. I would tell him that it is just that, the past. </p><p>Maybe tell him, you are both grown adults, have your own lives etc. You just live your life differently and have strange quirks. Maybe tell him with age you now need peace and maybe it is all in your head but you just don't feel well. </p><p>Even if it is a fib, maybe it will get him off of your back. </p><p>He doesn't have to like your needs but they are your needs, maybe you can tell him that.</p><p>Sorry, my brother is a difficult child also and I have a hard time talking about this kind of stuff also.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 243171, member: 3155"] Oh I am sorry you are dealing with his issues. I hate that you have to walk on eggshells to accommodate him. I think the boundaries need to be set also. I think it is beyond you rehashing all of the past. If he hasn't figured by now he wont get it. If your health and Jess' is getting affected he needs to stop. If you are afraid her will hurt himself, I wouldn't bring up the past. I would tell him that it is just that, the past. Maybe tell him, you are both grown adults, have your own lives etc. You just live your life differently and have strange quirks. Maybe tell him with age you now need peace and maybe it is all in your head but you just don't feel well. Even if it is a fib, maybe it will get him off of your back. He doesn't have to like your needs but they are your needs, maybe you can tell him that. Sorry, my brother is a difficult child also and I have a hard time talking about this kind of stuff also. [/QUOTE]
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