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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 636936" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>I was thinking this last night. It comes down to what the experts say - expose them for who they are. In this case you tell everyone including Bubby (in language he can understand) that JT is mentally ill. The more people you tell, the safer Bubby will be. Put things in writing. Keep things like text messages, anything you can document that JT does. (court documents, emails, FB posts, just anything) Keep a diary of behaviors and actions. If enough people know that JT is not a good influence over your other son and mentally ill - it is highly unlikely that anyone would trust him to later take care of Bubby. </p><p>It is never too soon tor protect Bubby by telling him the truth - that JT is not a good person and he should never be trusted.</p><p>I was legal guardian over my sister who was daughter, until she passed. I warned her many times of my daughter sociopath ways and she was able to understand it and not trust her. This is someone with an IQ of about 50. Also the state "system" she was in was full of sick and demented people so I also instructed her never to sign anything and she was able to understand that and refused EVERYONE that asked her to sign her name to anything. She was also able to tell me when things going on around her were not "right" So, educated correctly anyone can get an understanding of "not to trust" if handled in the right way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 636936, member: 18366"] I was thinking this last night. It comes down to what the experts say - expose them for who they are. In this case you tell everyone including Bubby (in language he can understand) that JT is mentally ill. The more people you tell, the safer Bubby will be. Put things in writing. Keep things like text messages, anything you can document that JT does. (court documents, emails, FB posts, just anything) Keep a diary of behaviors and actions. If enough people know that JT is not a good influence over your other son and mentally ill - it is highly unlikely that anyone would trust him to later take care of Bubby. It is never too soon tor protect Bubby by telling him the truth - that JT is not a good person and he should never be trusted. I was legal guardian over my sister who was daughter, until she passed. I warned her many times of my daughter sociopath ways and she was able to understand it and not trust her. This is someone with an IQ of about 50. Also the state "system" she was in was full of sick and demented people so I also instructed her never to sign anything and she was able to understand that and refused EVERYONE that asked her to sign her name to anything. She was also able to tell me when things going on around her were not "right" So, educated correctly anyone can get an understanding of "not to trust" if handled in the right way. [/QUOTE]
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