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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 184374" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Terry, the thought that entered my mind as I was reading this post was</p><p> </p><p>'I think Terry is taking the behavior personally'</p><p> </p><p>Are you? Really think about this. What your difficult child does is not against you. You can not take it on as personal. You did nothing to make him do what he is doing, he is not doing it to you. </p><p> </p><p>It took some time for me to not take my difficult children behavior personally. I watched her step-mom take it personally, too. She still does sometimes. </p><p> </p><p>It is not a reflection of you, or your parenting. </p><p>It is not done to hurt you.</p><p>It is not your fault. </p><p> </p><p>Have you ever felt like these things are on your shoulders? I did for a long time. I took on the weight of my difficult children actions like you would not believe. </p><p> </p><p>I may be all wrong here and I hope I am, because none of us should take our difficult children behavior personally. I hope my typing this out helps some lurkers, too! </p><p> </p><p>HUGS! And enjoy time at your father's!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 184374, member: 391"] Terry, the thought that entered my mind as I was reading this post was 'I think Terry is taking the behavior personally' Are you? Really think about this. What your difficult child does is not against you. You can not take it on as personal. You did nothing to make him do what he is doing, he is not doing it to you. It took some time for me to not take my difficult children behavior personally. I watched her step-mom take it personally, too. She still does sometimes. It is not a reflection of you, or your parenting. It is not done to hurt you. It is not your fault. Have you ever felt like these things are on your shoulders? I did for a long time. I took on the weight of my difficult children actions like you would not believe. I may be all wrong here and I hope I am, because none of us should take our difficult children behavior personally. I hope my typing this out helps some lurkers, too! HUGS! And enjoy time at your father's! [/QUOTE]
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