<span style='font-size: 11pt'>JJJ, I still feel my stomach drop when I see results on paper. You always hope that it's not as bad as you suspect but it's really in your face when it's written.
I understand the offense when someone suggests parenting class but think of it as parenting support class. Not that you aren't doing things by the book but to help you problem solve along the way.
The testing gives measurable results but it is not the whole child or the whole picture. I always thought it was a jumping off point. If difficult child wants to be a teacher then go with it. Lots of people who were not great students achieved their goals.
Hope this offers some new ideas but at least it's a plan. Many of us don't get one of those or it's so ridiculous that no one can follow through.
One step forward even if it doesn't feel that way. </span>