My difficult child 1 is only 11, He is always touching himself and he does not care who is around. I thought they went through puberity around 13. He has already has hair under his arm. I found some girly magz in his room and my family thinks it is okay and normal. It might be normal but it is not okay. What do I have to look forward too. I don't know if I am ready for this. Any advice on how to handle this.