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<blockquote data-quote="Lucedaleblessed" data-source="post: 571233" data-attributes="member: 6747"><p>I know that there are many countries out there who deals with difficult child's in very different way. In Singapore they get the can and they get it so they will have lasting scars the rest of their lives on their behinds. A month in jail equals one lash I have been told from a friend living there so they put some force into it. I remember years back that a difficult child from here got 4 lashes. A little research told me that he didn't change his behavior as an adult so harsh corporal punishment is not a solution.</p><p></p><p>I guess every culture must do what their culture tell them dealing with difficult child's. I will not judge.</p><p></p><p>What do upsets me is however the general trend that drug use and general difficult child behavior among celebrities are dealt with a very soft hand. The very role models our children watch Television, Youtube etc. act like difficult child's and in a double income society they are given too much space showing our children how to act when you make it to the top. It is so on a worldwide basis. It is just as bad abroad as here. I talked with my husband how we have changed maybe too much to be good rolemodels for our daughter. I like wine but is have been months since I had a glass because we don't want to have alcohol in our house with her home alone after school where she could arrange for a party with some friends and suddenly we would be held responsible. But regardless how much we have changed, the other rolemodels entertain her every afternoon, so do it matter?</p><p></p><p>I want my life back and in a couple of months we maybe will get it if she goes. Sometime I am that close to let her pick whatever she wants when she leaves.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lucedaleblessed, post: 571233, member: 6747"] I know that there are many countries out there who deals with difficult child's in very different way. In Singapore they get the can and they get it so they will have lasting scars the rest of their lives on their behinds. A month in jail equals one lash I have been told from a friend living there so they put some force into it. I remember years back that a difficult child from here got 4 lashes. A little research told me that he didn't change his behavior as an adult so harsh corporal punishment is not a solution. I guess every culture must do what their culture tell them dealing with difficult child's. I will not judge. What do upsets me is however the general trend that drug use and general difficult child behavior among celebrities are dealt with a very soft hand. The very role models our children watch Television, Youtube etc. act like difficult child's and in a double income society they are given too much space showing our children how to act when you make it to the top. It is so on a worldwide basis. It is just as bad abroad as here. I talked with my husband how we have changed maybe too much to be good rolemodels for our daughter. I like wine but is have been months since I had a glass because we don't want to have alcohol in our house with her home alone after school where she could arrange for a party with some friends and suddenly we would be held responsible. But regardless how much we have changed, the other rolemodels entertain her every afternoon, so do it matter? I want my life back and in a couple of months we maybe will get it if she goes. Sometime I am that close to let her pick whatever she wants when she leaves. [/QUOTE]
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