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Putting 12 yo difficult child into Hospital
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 276003" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>The Lamaze breathing is an EXCELLENT tool. I even taught it to my daughter to help her control some physical problems that are painful.</p><p></p><p>It is tough to hospitalize your child. Just realizing you can't "fix" what is "broken" in your child, that infant you adored, that toddler you delighted in, is so very painful. And it is even tougher to admit to others, even your spouse.</p><p></p><p>Kids do generally thrive in the phosps. And it may take YOU filing police reports for anything of yours he breaks or damages, to help your husband see the problems. </p><p></p><p>If difficult child is in ANY way hurting other children you MUST report this to Child Protection. If it is later learned that you did not come up with a good safety plan AND report him you could lose custody of the OTHER CHILDREN!! They will not take the difficult child who is doing the abusing. They take the other children. AND they can charge you with neglect or endangering a child or other things.</p><p></p><p>YOU. Not husband. It will be YOU included in those charges. Not just husband as difficult child's father.</p><p></p><p>I hope that at some point your husband can work with you to handle this. That he can stop controlling the information and let the experts really "see" the problems. </p><p></p><p>Gentle Hugs.</p><p></p><p>ps. I truly do NOT mean to be a "doomsday predictor". The Child Protection stuff almost happened to us. They said they would leave Wiz and take my younger 2 kids who Wiz was terrorizing and abusing. I couldn't believe it, but it was what happened to us. we had to actually put alarms on the doors so difficult child couldn't get to the kids with-o us knowing. And Jess had to wear an alarm around her neck anytime she was at home. To alert us if difficult child tried to hurt her and we were in another room. It was VERY traumatizing. So don't wait for someone else to report it to CPS. It really goes better if YOU report it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 276003, member: 1233"] The Lamaze breathing is an EXCELLENT tool. I even taught it to my daughter to help her control some physical problems that are painful. It is tough to hospitalize your child. Just realizing you can't "fix" what is "broken" in your child, that infant you adored, that toddler you delighted in, is so very painful. And it is even tougher to admit to others, even your spouse. Kids do generally thrive in the phosps. And it may take YOU filing police reports for anything of yours he breaks or damages, to help your husband see the problems. If difficult child is in ANY way hurting other children you MUST report this to Child Protection. If it is later learned that you did not come up with a good safety plan AND report him you could lose custody of the OTHER CHILDREN!! They will not take the difficult child who is doing the abusing. They take the other children. AND they can charge you with neglect or endangering a child or other things. YOU. Not husband. It will be YOU included in those charges. Not just husband as difficult child's father. I hope that at some point your husband can work with you to handle this. That he can stop controlling the information and let the experts really "see" the problems. Gentle Hugs. ps. I truly do NOT mean to be a "doomsday predictor". The Child Protection stuff almost happened to us. They said they would leave Wiz and take my younger 2 kids who Wiz was terrorizing and abusing. I couldn't believe it, but it was what happened to us. we had to actually put alarms on the doors so difficult child couldn't get to the kids with-o us knowing. And Jess had to wear an alarm around her neck anytime she was at home. To alert us if difficult child tried to hurt her and we were in another room. It was VERY traumatizing. So don't wait for someone else to report it to CPS. It really goes better if YOU report it. [/QUOTE]
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