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Putting 12 yo difficult child into Hospital
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 276392" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>He may feel better in there--more controlled--and be afraid to come home. He hasn't had much success there and there is no way you can keep him safe the way a hospital can. I was once in a hospital for ten weeks, back when insurance would cover you until you actually got better. I was terrified to leave. Once I left, I didn't feel right either. I wasn't completely stable yet (not even after ten weeks <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" />). I don't know that son is rejecting husband at all. And I'm not sure I"d buy that DS is throwing out his problems when he throws things out. It's a theory--there is no proof. I hate to be leery of therapists, but I had so many and some of them said things to me that made no sense at all and were not right. He may have no idea why he is throwing things away and there may be no psychological reason for it. It just may be a compulsion of his. Sorry that I'm so jaded <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p>Maybe this child realizes he needs to be in a controlled enviroment or that his behavior will be out of his hands. I don't think this child has the capacity to reign himself in and I think the child realizes this and needs round-the-clock care. I hope he can get into an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) soon. Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 276392, member: 1550"] He may feel better in there--more controlled--and be afraid to come home. He hasn't had much success there and there is no way you can keep him safe the way a hospital can. I was once in a hospital for ten weeks, back when insurance would cover you until you actually got better. I was terrified to leave. Once I left, I didn't feel right either. I wasn't completely stable yet (not even after ten weeks :sick:). I don't know that son is rejecting husband at all. And I'm not sure I"d buy that DS is throwing out his problems when he throws things out. It's a theory--there is no proof. I hate to be leery of therapists, but I had so many and some of them said things to me that made no sense at all and were not right. He may have no idea why he is throwing things away and there may be no psychological reason for it. It just may be a compulsion of his. Sorry that I'm so jaded :winking: Maybe this child realizes he needs to be in a controlled enviroment or that his behavior will be out of his hands. I don't think this child has the capacity to reign himself in and I think the child realizes this and needs round-the-clock care. I hope he can get into an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) soon. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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