I am so upset. My daughter is getting married Oct. 13. She has been seeing this guy for 6 years. She started datiing him when she was 16 and he was 22. Now they live together. anyway, my son that is 17 isnt going to do anything in the wedding but give out programs. At first they were going to have him walk me down the aisle but now it seems that they just want the groomsmen to do that. She says it is because her fiance is not "friends" with her brother and that is why. I find that hard to bealieve. I think her fiance is anal! He is a me first and appearance kinda guy. It seems she would know that by now. she broke up with him once and then he freaked out - threatened to end his life - called me crying, etc. What in the world? Anyway it hurt my feelings. We are doing everything we can to help her with this wedding. I am giving my whole paycheck and more. Both her dad and I have done everything we could - sometimes she is not grateful. He comes from a mother that has had 3 husbands. I got so upset when she said that about her brother not walking me down the aisle. She blamed it on the church director but I beg it was her fiance that didnt want it. He wants everyone to look like they walked out of CQ magazine.! Help please. I dont want to lose her. She is very independent. Lives her own life - doesnt ask for money - I mmiss her.