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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 78255" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>I agree with both ant and barbara. but now I will just keep my mouth shut. My mother didnt like my husband. She was upset that I was going to marry him. She said I had disappointed her. I was always the peacemaker, good one, took up for everyone so my mother would be happy! So when it came time for my wedding - I couldnt walk down the isle - I cant blame it all on my mother but I was living at home then and the looks she would give me and some things she would say made me doubt my decision. On the day of my wedding I told her I was scared. She told me she would do whatever I wanted to do - either go through with it or not - my decision. I decided not to. I called my fiance (now my husband) and told him I was scared to death and couldnt go through with it. He was furious. We cancelled the wedding - I went my way - he went his. I suffered without him for a long time - maybe 6 months. Dated other people - some lawyers, etc. - didnt love any of them. I finally started seeing my husband again and fell in love with him all over. My mother was not very happy. We got married in Jan. 1977 5 months after we had called off our wedding. I practically had to ask him. My mother did not come to our small chapel wedding. She was the only one thata didnt come. I have never forgotten it. It hurts me more now than then. It really hurts me that I didnt go through with the wedding. My mother has passed away. I forgave her for that and I miss her so much. It hurt me. I do not want that for my daughter. My husband doesnt either. He says for me to keep my mouth shut - he knows the pain of having bad things said about you. I have been married tohim for 30 years!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 78255, member: 3948"] I agree with both ant and barbara. but now I will just keep my mouth shut. My mother didnt like my husband. She was upset that I was going to marry him. She said I had disappointed her. I was always the peacemaker, good one, took up for everyone so my mother would be happy! So when it came time for my wedding - I couldnt walk down the isle - I cant blame it all on my mother but I was living at home then and the looks she would give me and some things she would say made me doubt my decision. On the day of my wedding I told her I was scared. She told me she would do whatever I wanted to do - either go through with it or not - my decision. I decided not to. I called my fiance (now my husband) and told him I was scared to death and couldnt go through with it. He was furious. We cancelled the wedding - I went my way - he went his. I suffered without him for a long time - maybe 6 months. Dated other people - some lawyers, etc. - didnt love any of them. I finally started seeing my husband again and fell in love with him all over. My mother was not very happy. We got married in Jan. 1977 5 months after we had called off our wedding. I practically had to ask him. My mother did not come to our small chapel wedding. She was the only one thata didnt come. I have never forgotten it. It hurts me more now than then. It really hurts me that I didnt go through with the wedding. My mother has passed away. I forgave her for that and I miss her so much. It hurt me. I do not want that for my daughter. My husband doesnt either. He says for me to keep my mouth shut - he knows the pain of having bad things said about you. I have been married tohim for 30 years! [/QUOTE]
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