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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 597605" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Bunny: If it would be about choice; those medications would not do any difference. medications are not making choices so if medications changed things it means that with medications something else changed than what he just chose to do. If you take Tylenol, and stop being grumpy after that it doesn't mean, that Tylenol made a choice for you to be cheerful that you were too stubborn and annoying to do yourself. More likely what happened was, that Tylenol helped with your headache and you were able to choose being cheerful instead of grumpy because you weren't hurting any more.</p><p></p><p>I don't believe that being different in different places means that it is about choice or that you could just be same every there. I'm able to stand on my head in yoga class. I'm not able to stand on my head all night at home or all day at work. Doesn't mean that I just stubbornly choose to not stand on my head all the time because my work or home life is enabling me to stand on my feet or even sit. I can also be very social and cheery person at work and when we entertain or visit or I'm out with friends. But you really, really don't want to make me do it 24/7 without lengthy downtimes for more than few days. It won't be pretty. I find it perfectly normal that people can do something for certain time, but not longer. And that doing something is much easier in some environments than in others.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 597605, member: 14557"] Bunny: If it would be about choice; those medications would not do any difference. medications are not making choices so if medications changed things it means that with medications something else changed than what he just chose to do. If you take Tylenol, and stop being grumpy after that it doesn't mean, that Tylenol made a choice for you to be cheerful that you were too stubborn and annoying to do yourself. More likely what happened was, that Tylenol helped with your headache and you were able to choose being cheerful instead of grumpy because you weren't hurting any more. I don't believe that being different in different places means that it is about choice or that you could just be same every there. I'm able to stand on my head in yoga class. I'm not able to stand on my head all night at home or all day at work. Doesn't mean that I just stubbornly choose to not stand on my head all the time because my work or home life is enabling me to stand on my feet or even sit. I can also be very social and cheery person at work and when we entertain or visit or I'm out with friends. But you really, really don't want to make me do it 24/7 without lengthy downtimes for more than few days. It won't be pretty. I find it perfectly normal that people can do something for certain time, but not longer. And that doing something is much easier in some environments than in others. [/QUOTE]
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