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Question about pushing a bird out of the nest
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 567478" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Janet, perhaps the way to start the ball rolling to have your home free of offspring, is to first identify what it is you really want. Make a list if that helps. Would you like Billy to live on your property in his own place? Or would you rather he be 'down the street' a little further away. Would you like him to be completely self sufficient? Or would you be willing to help him financially to some degree each month? If so, what would that amount be? Are you willing to help him make the move, financially and physically, help him pack, help him move his stuff, etc? Is there furniture, kitchen stuff, household items you're willing to offer him? When would you like him to be gone by? It's a good idea to pick a date which will give him the time to adjust to the idea. Will Tony be supportive of this and stand with you? Maybe have a conversation with Tony after you get clear on what <strong>you </strong>want and find out what his willingness is and then the two of you communicate that to Billy as a united front. It doesn't sound to me like you are angry, just ready. With the money from the accident and Billy's tax refund, it all adds up to good timing all around. You sure are being assertive of late, I guess this is another opportunity for that.............hope the road is easy for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 567478, member: 13542"] Janet, perhaps the way to start the ball rolling to have your home free of offspring, is to first identify what it is you really want. Make a list if that helps. Would you like Billy to live on your property in his own place? Or would you rather he be 'down the street' a little further away. Would you like him to be completely self sufficient? Or would you be willing to help him financially to some degree each month? If so, what would that amount be? Are you willing to help him make the move, financially and physically, help him pack, help him move his stuff, etc? Is there furniture, kitchen stuff, household items you're willing to offer him? When would you like him to be gone by? It's a good idea to pick a date which will give him the time to adjust to the idea. Will Tony be supportive of this and stand with you? Maybe have a conversation with Tony after you get clear on what [B]you [/B]want and find out what his willingness is and then the two of you communicate that to Billy as a united front. It doesn't sound to me like you are angry, just ready. With the money from the accident and Billy's tax refund, it all adds up to good timing all around. You sure are being assertive of late, I guess this is another opportunity for that.............hope the road is easy for you. [/QUOTE]
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