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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 481795" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Malika, the tweedles came to me with memories of birth mom. AND they created fantastic stories as to the whys & wherefores of birth mom.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Saying the above, we were very truthful about bio mom. They were up for adoption not because of a loving adoption plan. The tweedles survived more than any child(ren) should have to survive. They were used in various demeaning & disgusting ways. For kt & wm to grow beyond their early childhood they needed to hear the harsh realities.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Needless to say, kt & wm have been angry & sad the birth mom didn't care enough about them to keep them safe. To love & nurture them.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I cannot think of one adopted child who doesn't feel sad or question why their bio mom didn't keep them. I also feel that at some point you must be honest as to why a birth mom couldn't parent her child. It was important for kt & wm or the fantasy the created would have disrupted any & all chances for their ability to function.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 481795, member: 393"] [FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]Malika, the tweedles came to me with memories of birth mom. AND they created fantastic stories as to the whys & wherefores of birth mom. Saying the above, we were very truthful about bio mom. They were up for adoption not because of a loving adoption plan. The tweedles survived more than any child(ren) should have to survive. They were used in various demeaning & disgusting ways. For kt & wm to grow beyond their early childhood they needed to hear the harsh realities. Needless to say, kt & wm have been angry & sad the birth mom didn't care enough about them to keep them safe. To love & nurture them. I cannot think of one adopted child who doesn't feel sad or question why their bio mom didn't keep them. I also feel that at some point you must be honest as to why a birth mom couldn't parent her child. It was important for kt & wm or the fantasy the created would have disrupted any & all chances for their ability to function. [/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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