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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 338814"><p>Thank you Nomad. That really was well said. </p><p></p><p>Well he's gone. He wouldn't tell us where he went and won't pick up his dad's calls. I told husband to expect him to be angry at us for a while but it's hard for him. I plan to get him a nice gift for Valentine's Day with a card telling him how proud we are of him and that our motives were out of love. I don't know if he will believe that for a while. Things got kind of tense for a while, I got witchy and didn't come from my best self there for a while lol and he overheard some things I meant for husband's ears only.</p><p></p><p>It's been helpful that husband has increased his AA meetings lately. Mostly because he's helping someone else but it helps him too. </p><p></p><p>Right now I plan to try and detach from husband's process of grief and letting go. I can't make this warm, fuzzy and okay for him. His son may play the guilt card for a long time but I must stay out of it and let them (hopefully) come to healthy place in their relationship. I'm very glad I see the therapist tomorrow!</p><p></p><p>Thanks for all the great words of support. I love you guys.</p><p></p><p>ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 338814"] Thank you Nomad. That really was well said. Well he's gone. He wouldn't tell us where he went and won't pick up his dad's calls. I told husband to expect him to be angry at us for a while but it's hard for him. I plan to get him a nice gift for Valentine's Day with a card telling him how proud we are of him and that our motives were out of love. I don't know if he will believe that for a while. Things got kind of tense for a while, I got witchy and didn't come from my best self there for a while lol and he overheard some things I meant for husband's ears only. It's been helpful that husband has increased his AA meetings lately. Mostly because he's helping someone else but it helps him too. Right now I plan to try and detach from husband's process of grief and letting go. I can't make this warm, fuzzy and okay for him. His son may play the guilt card for a long time but I must stay out of it and let them (hopefully) come to healthy place in their relationship. I'm very glad I see the therapist tomorrow! Thanks for all the great words of support. I love you guys. ML [/QUOTE]
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