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Question for Those Familiar with Borderline (BPD) and False Accusations...
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 523169" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Daisy I havent read through the other posts because I am tired and not very comfortable where I am sitting but I wanted to reply to you so if I repeat anything anyone has already said, please forgive me.</p><p></p><p>The abuse or whatever doesnt have to happen at home. What borderline tends to come from is more from an invalidating experience when the child is very young. It doesnt have to be even something the parent are aware of or that the child is aware of. It can just mean that the child and some caregiver didnt mesh very well. Yes that could be the parents but it could also be the day care center, the school, the group at the library where she had reading, Sunday School, the local playground group...all sorts of things. It can also mean that she simply didnt fit well in her skin with how you parented her when she was a little baby and toddler. You could have handled her exactly the way everyone told you to and she could have reacted predictably but still felt a bit off kilter. That does not mean its your fault. You didnt do this to her. Now there are parents out there that are breeding grounds for borderline. My mother was one of them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 523169, member: 1514"] Daisy I havent read through the other posts because I am tired and not very comfortable where I am sitting but I wanted to reply to you so if I repeat anything anyone has already said, please forgive me. The abuse or whatever doesnt have to happen at home. What borderline tends to come from is more from an invalidating experience when the child is very young. It doesnt have to be even something the parent are aware of or that the child is aware of. It can just mean that the child and some caregiver didnt mesh very well. Yes that could be the parents but it could also be the day care center, the school, the group at the library where she had reading, Sunday School, the local playground group...all sorts of things. It can also mean that she simply didnt fit well in her skin with how you parented her when she was a little baby and toddler. You could have handled her exactly the way everyone told you to and she could have reacted predictably but still felt a bit off kilter. That does not mean its your fault. You didnt do this to her. Now there are parents out there that are breeding grounds for borderline. My mother was one of them. [/QUOTE]
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